Keep this christian dating advice handy: “Certainly sexual modesty may damp down superficial allure, the kind of allure that inspires a one-night stand. But the kind of allure that lasts—that is what modesty protects and inspires.” As hard as it may be to believe, many men are attracted to female modesty which may seem contrary to the images that are depicted daily in movies, television, ads and more. I’m sure a majority of women who are reading this can think of a time when their modest behavior brought out a sense of awe from a man who then wanted to get to know more about this modest female.
There are many stories that I can recall but there is a particular one which really stands out vividly in my mind and that I would enjoy sharing for those seeking Christian dating advice. Some years ago a colleague of mine told me how he and his wife were out on a trip West and made a stop at a certain hotel which had a huge convention going on. The hotel was crowded with many men and women. As my colleague went to grab his bags, his wife went to the registration desk where people parted as if they were the Red Sea to allow his wife through to the front desk. He could tell the effect that his modestly dressed wife was having on these men who were looking at her the entire way. This woman was able to exude regality and carried herself like a Queen. She was feminine and alluring without the need to be provocatively dressed.
Sure there are men who are aroused by women who dress in skimpy outfits and use their bodies as a form of power, however this is only false bait and these relationships only lead in disaster. The fact that divorce rates are greater than 50% should be proof enough. Men want to marry a woman whose sensuality is more hidden from plain site and not on display for the whole world to see.
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