1) Be yourself!
The first and foremost rule to make him love you is to be yourself! Do not pretend to be someone you aren’t as this will only cause problems in the long run. Once he notices that you are faking (which will be fairly quick), he’ll probably end up feeling betrayed and not want to be with you. You should have enough self-respect and enough confidence to feel that you have enough to offer to make him love you, whether it’s for your great sense of humor, your stunning looks, your brilliant mind, etc.
You not only need to be yourself, but you must be confident and belief in yourself. A majority of the women who want a relationship but are single have a low self esteem. I’ve known females who are absolutely gorgeous and unable to attain a guy, while I know this one women who you wouldn’t think to look at twice dating plenty of guys. The difference being (assuming that they all have great personalities) is confidence level. This girl told me directly that should could get any guy she wanted and you could tell she really believed it. She had a radiance about her that can only claim with being confident. I later met her boyfriend and they seemed very happy together. It’s quite clear how far confidence can go to make him love you.
If you’re shy or do have a low self-esteem, then here’s a tip: Try to concentrate on what your good aspects. Do you have a witty sense of humor? Use it… the guy you want will appreciate it! Do you have stunning eyes? Apply some mascara and eye liner to make them stand out even more. No matter what, everyone has some quality/trait/body part that they feel is great. You should too!
Don’t overreact and try too hard!
When you like a guy and want to make him love you, it can be very easy to make a fool of yourself. Don’t say the first thing that pops into your head or what you think he wants to hear. Try not to be too loud or too hidden in the background. Don’t start laughing for no apparent reason. These types of things typically happen when you become very nervous around him and start getting fixated on what he’s thinking about you — take a deep breath, relax, and just act like he’s a friend… there’s no reason to be so stressed!
It’s generally accepted that men are more visually oriented then women when it comes to the selection process, and while personality and confidence play a huge role to make him love you, it’s your looks that will first get him to notice you. First impressions are always important. So make sure to accentuate your best features, dress up and you’ll be sure to make him love you!
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