So you are really into this cute guy and want to learn how to get a guy to ask you out. Well look no further! In order to get a guy to ask you out on a date, it’s important that you take a few easy steps.
Get a guy to like you more by getting a guy to associate things that he already loves with you. For example, let’s say he has a favorite TV show that cracks him up. Talk to him about it and have him tell you about the funniest episode. As he tells you, he’s going to be remembering it and having good feelings and laughing. While this is happening, he will associate these feelings with you, which will help you in getting a guy to ask you out.
You also need to realize and understand that guys are afraid of rejection as much as women. If a guy goes and asks a girl for her phone number, there is an 80% chance that he will be rejected. So let’s say the guy you want to ask you out is shy or is afraid of rejection, you can simply make it very clear that if he approaches you, that you will say yes. You can do this in various ways. You can establish eye contact first. You can flash him a quick smile when he looks your way. If you want to be bold, then just walk up to him and give him your number and just tell him that you’d love to hear from him and grab a bite or drink.
It’s important though not to be available all the time when he calls. Always return his messages, but show him that you have a life. Make him compete for your attention. He has to earn his way into being your top priority. You can let him know that other guys are into you but that you aren’t into him. You can complain to him by saying something like “I’m tired of all these guys hitting on me… I’m so not into them”. This shows that you have choices because you are desirable which in turn will get the guy you are interested in to ask you out because a guy wants a highly desirable woman. This will stroke a guys ego; knowing a highly desirable woman is into him and will get him to ask you out.
It’s also important when you’re searching for how to get a guy to ask you out to make sure you don’t fall into the ‘friends zone’. A lot of people think that only guys can be relegated to this zone, but it can happen to women too. The problem is a lot of females will initially try to be a guys friend first. This is a great idea, as some fantastic relationships come from friendships, however it’s important that the man you’re interested in doesn’t just view you as ‘one of the guys’. He needs to see you as a woman too, otherwise the thought of asking you out might never occur to him. You need to find a balance of being able to show off your feminine side but at the same time come off as the fun girl to hang out with… which brings me to another point. Check to see if he’s showing any of these signs he’s into you to see
It’s hard to have a guy ask you out on a date and not just a booty call if you’ve never really interacted with him. You need to hang out with him, get to know him and at the same time let him get to know you as well. The guy needs to be attracted to you. You can do this via various methods. One great way to do this is to show the guy that you want to get to ask you out that you’re actually interested in him. Ask him about the things he’s passionate about. If he’s in a band, ask him about it! Go to his shows, listen to his music, leave a message on his Facebook or Twitter, letting him know how awesome his show was or how great the show was. By hanging out, you create an atmosphere where he can feel more than just a physical attraction, which will lead to getting him to ask you out as opposed to just asking you into bed…
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I have been hanging out with some guy friends and there’s this one cute guy who I really like, but he really doesn’t know me too well… would it be weird if I asked him to see a movie with me and my friends?
I liked his brother at first and then I fell in love with him cause I was too close too him plus his hot.so I am deeply inlove with him and I don’t know what to do
im in love with my neighbor but he has a girlfriend but his friends say he likes me more than her
HELP!!!
How long has he been going out with his girlfriend? Is it a serious relationship?
So on the first day of school 2 different girls asked me out … well they got their friends to do it for them while they sort of hid behind… All I have to say is girls don’t do that! We guys find it immature and annoying… instead try walking up to the guy and say something like “Hey, I think you’re very cute, do you wanna talk some time”… over 97% will say yes, at the very least to be polite which will give you a chance to show them how cool you are… the other 3% will pass out or completely embarrass themselves
… but lady’s you have to go through with it and then see were this takes you
Okay recently I’ve been around this guy at school. He hangs around the girls (not me). Sometimes he hangs around me. His name is Cody. He is adorable. Well anyway, I tried showing some signs to him and he seems like he dosen’t notice it. He asked to play with my phone and I said yes. Then today he didn’t talk to me at all. Can anyone help? My E-Mail to help me is chloebear041200@yahoo.com or chloe.orrell@yahoo.com
It’s the beginning of school and I sit by this guy in biology, I never really noticed him at first but he keeps talking to me and he’s cute in a nerdy way, I really like him now but I think he does this with every girl and I don’t know how to get him to ask me out or how to let him know I like him without actually saying I like him! I’ve never had a boyfriend this may be the first boy who’s ever liked me! HELP!
my bestfriend like dis guy n she told me bout it all summer n i hadnt seen her in lik 5yrs,but she never let me tell her i had feelins for him 2.when she found out she wuz really mad at me.once school beginned i couldnt keep me eyes of him n if feel bad cuz my friend liks him n i dont want our friendship to end n i also dont wanna let (….) go cuz i really lik him.WAT SHOULD I DO!!??:(
I really like this guy on the football team but he doesnt really know me. I’m also on the football team and im the only girl so he knows my name. I like him a lot and his name is robert. I dont know how toget him to like me
ANY tips would help alot my email is haleyadams11@gmail.com
i like this guy but we really dont talk and i like him a lot and his brother is my friend and i reaaly dont know what to do. and his brother likes me but i dont like him i need help.
I like this really cute guy and but the bad thing is tht he is friends with my ex.But we talk and laught but we r not in the friend zone.But I flirt with him and he flirts back and my friends think tht we r going to go out sooner or later.But another problem this girl went out with him last year and is planning on asking him out again what do I do help.
I like this guy, I tried making him jealous and it worked, he looked at me like he was breaking. He is single should I stop making him jealous or should I continue? I dont know what to do about this. I love him, I think he kinda likes me.
so there’s this guy i like… we’ve lived in the same neighborhood for years and have practically grown up together. anyway, i really like him and yesterday we went to the park and hung out….it was awkward cuz neither of us knew what to say to the other….we text quite often and there are times when i could swear he has feelings for me….but then it’s awkward when we hung out at the park for 1/2 an hour…any advice??? thanks!
I like this guy and I think he likes me, the other day he asked me if I knee about any girls that liked him, I said no, what do I do?!?
wAT DO I DO WEN IM INLOVE WITH MY BEST FRIEND BUT HE HAS A GIRL FRIEND AND SHE IS A FRIEND OF MINE BUT HE KEEPS FLIRTING WITH ME AND EVERY ONE SAYS HE GONNA ASK ME OUT SOON BUT HASNT!!!!!!!
HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!
There’s this guy that I’ve hated for like ever but since last year ive started to think hez kinda cute. His name is Ryan and I don’t know if I should tell him because we’ve like made a competition of like saying rude comments to each other and I still play along cause I don’t want him to know I like him. I’ve been thinking about telling him but don’t know what to do please tell me through email:
haileygnnapa@sbcglobal.net
well i like this boy that i dont talk to but i do see him staring at me but he is friend with a boy that likes me too.ohh amd there is this boy that i know that likes me but wont ask me out HELP what do i do
well thers this guy called joe and i like like him he callse me cute and he sings about me and is always staring at me but today he has been mean to me and i dotn no if he likes me please help me !
All of my freinds have boyfriends except me, its embarassing and im left out on there double dates and stuff all the time! what should i do? email me at kflit123@gmail.com
I like two guys and they r both on the football team an they r both super hot but the one I least like out of the two of them likes me and I don’t like him as much as the other kid oh yea I told the hotter kid tht I like him and now out friend relationship is kinda awkward!
complicated storyyyyy.
so i moved. i knew the kid who lived next to me.
he thought i should go out w/ his friend.
we were introduced.
i really liked him and after a while he asked me out.
idk why, but i didnt want a relationship.
school started and he asked like a bazillion more times and i still said no.
then, i told him i liked him and he said he would ask me out after the student council thing.
he changed his mind. he had changed it a while before, i just didnt know.
i was heartbroken. no joke.
hes still like my bestfriend and we constantly flirt.
im pretty sure im in love with him. everyone says hes in love with me too.
they all think were in love, just wont admit it.
he hasnt asked me out but i want a relationship with him, only him, soo bad.
I liked this one guy since fourth grade and i finally ask him out and he says no really. Then i go to school the next day and he keeps staring at me in a flirty way, and he talks about with his friends too. I think he likes me but was just to nervous to say yes. I hope he asks me out soon he almost did today.
There is this guy I really, really like, and we are best friends. He knows that I like him, and though he tells me he doesn’t, he tends to flirt with me. I asked him out before and he said he loves me, but not in that way. Just in a friend way. Although he says its just in a friend way, he acts like he wants it to be more than that. Some of the ways he flirts is always wanting to come over and spend time with me, wanting to talk to me all the time, asking me to help him with like clothes shopping, and a whole lot of other things. He always wants me with him, and he wants to know answers to extremely personal questions like my bra size, which I refuse to tell him unless we had been dating for a while. I keep thinking that he’s gonna ask me out any day now, but it doesn’t happen. I have no idea what I should do anymore. if anyone has any ideas or advice, my email is: ankmakbff@yahoo.com
Well theres diz boy and all last year we where friends we huged every day but diz year he got my number and he asked me out I said yes but I inorge him then I asked to be friends and now we are but he is with diz girl well she is kind of my friend and he text me more than he text her he sets by her in lunch but I aways see him staring at me he got to know my friends so its kinda hard to inornge him we hardly every talk at skool plz help
he has only went out for about 2days its not serisous
well, i lik this boy an he told me he likd me lik 8or9 weeks ago an he still hasnt askd me out evn though he evn told me he liked me, so wut now?
i used to be really close to this kid and then i meet his brother and now we are really close and i am like in love with him !!! and we sit next to eachother on the bus almost every day hellp does he like me or not or whatt i dont know what to feel
I need help! This guy I adore talks to me all the time, I thought I wasn’t in lovr with him but I am
I need help please I’m terrified to ask him out his name is Quinton and he always stares at me and trys to make conversations
but I just ignore help all I want to do is kiss him
out with him!and kiss him lol my name is ilayahh
any advice???
Okay so i like his guy but he is really shy. I always find him looking at me and when i go to his basketball games he always looks at me when he is on the court. I wana date him but i just got out of relationship and am nOt sure if i want another one. I really want him to ask me out but he is shy and has had only one girlfriend and she asked him out…. HELP me please!! N
I Rlly like this guy we dated before and he has said he likes me theese past few weeks now he likes this other girl who is one of my frinds and she dosent like him what do I do?!
PLEASE HELP!! i like this boy and we both said we liked eachother over facebook. he is wonderful; he is a talented singer, plays tuba, plays bass, and is very intellegent. we talk over facebook and complement each other. we hav few classes together and we dont sit together in the one that we can. people dont like him cus he is smart and does a lot of extra classes and musicals and people dont think he looks nice and a bit fat but we both think of inner beauty and poetry and we both like the same band. when i insult myself, he always says that im wonderful. at a school iceskating party he said hi to me like 7 times and was watching me skate(im pretty good at it). the one time at the party i was in la la land and no one was talking to me so he came up behind me and said “Well u look lonely”. i swear my heart skipped a beat and i jumped and said he scared me(well he did) and i walked away fast and texted him an apology later which he excepted. this whole thing is going NOWHERE and i think we would be happy together. reply ASAP please!!!
Okay so there is this guy, Matthew, and we have known eachother for more than a year and we just started texting about a month ago. I just got out of a relationshiop with his friend and I really like Matthew and I told him that and has said really nice things that I’m like pretty and stuff and I really like him, but I don’t know if he likes me! HELP
There is this new guy at my school. He’s really cute and mysterious. I think it hot. I kinda get annoying and creepy when I talk to single cute guys. Would I come off too strong if I ask him out?
Okay so there’s this kid he’s a grade older then me he is supperrrr cute and so I told one of his best friend he told him even though I wanted to tell him and he said he liked me a while ago I just didn’t know … And now we text connstantly late at night learning more about eachother… I want him to ask me out!! I Mean he’s sweet cute smart and hilarious I just wanna really know if he likes me ! I mean we flirt with eachother but I want him to tell me he likes me but how can I ask without making a fool of myself?! Thanks
I like this guy and he is my best friends boyfriends friend I know that sounds a little confusing but just know that we talk bit not a lot. A few weeks ago we were at a school dance and he asked me to dance with him I said yes and after that he came and found me for every slow dance after that. Do you think that he likes me? I don’t want to just tell him I like him but I really want him to ask me out any tips/things you think I could do to get him to like me more would really help send any thing you can come up with to breebuggrn@aol.com thanks
Well theres this guy named Marcus and he stares at me and everybody says he likes me but he’s afraid I’m gonna break his heart. What do I do?
So this guy I like, found out I like him. Turns out he likes me too. Well we’re both single but I don’t know how to ask him out or how to get him to ask me out! Please help! Thank you!
so i dated a guy i liked for 3 years and i broke up with him cause he didnt talk to him now he is dating my best friend and i really want him back cause he changed they been dating for 2 weeks HELP ME GET HIM BACK
alright so im guessing this guy and you both have some feelings for each other i would just tell him you still have feelings 4 him and you would like to get back together but you have to remember maybe he moved on and if he did find another guy to like and start talking to him:) emil me if anymore questions
if your ex found a new girl then you have to move on too
There is this guy I REALLY like, might even love and I told him that , he said we are dating but he said its not offical till he asks me in person :/ And he doesn’t want anyone to know about us …what do I do?
I like this korean guy named Will but he doesn’t want to go out but i really want to even tho he is going back to korea after this year ends how do i get him to like me enough to ask me out?
So at school we were playing this babyish game and this guy I liked was the shark and he got my best friend and I yelled life guard and the lifeguard came helped us and yada yada yada but when it was time to change the guy I was into said that he was going to get
what does that meen!
HELP!!!!!!!