Have you ever watched the TV Show How I Met Your Mother? If so, then I’m sure you have undoubtedly laughed at the hilariously awesome antics of Barney Stinson, Casanova extraordinaire, whose bantam passion for seduction has left his peers on the show in awe.
Despite the fact that Barney Stinson is a fictional character, there is plenty that all us men can learn from him by analyzing his seduction style. Let’s break it down into an easy to learn format so that you too can possibly seduce women successfully like Barney Stinson.
A week? That’s like a year in hot girl time.
Don’t wait too long to take action with a girl you’re into. If you get her number, call her within within a day or two. As long as you don’t say anything cheesy and don’t come off as a stalker, then you’re not going to strike out by calling her so soon. Just keep it simple and short. If you want go out on a date with her, just ask her. If there’s a girl that you like, show her. If you want to kiss her, just do it.
Don’t play the waiting game and hope that you get lucky. Step up and take the action into your own hands. By waiting around, you may end up losing out on a perfect opportunity. As they say, strike while the iron is hot! Exceptional women don’t just wait around.
Laugh It Out
The second trait that is important to develop is humor. Why? Women have more than their share of problems that they are dealing with and don’t really need the company of another personal who is equally depressing. If you’ve ever watched Barney, then I’m sure some of his dialogues and quotes have gotten you laughing.
Remember, it’s all about believing in yourself!
You need to believe in yourself and how awesome you are! You need to be able to conquer your insecurities, get over your fears, and improve your confidence. Women love men who are highly confident. There’s no reason not to believe that you can’t conquer anything you put your mind to. You need to believe in your own abilities. And if it’s something you can’t do now, then remember that you can always practice and learn how.
Don’t be afraid to introduce yourself to the beautiful girl. Assume the best. Believe that when she does meet you, she won’t be able to wait to see you again. Go into every interaction expecting the best.
Sure, there are times that you are going to be rejected. But so what? It happens to the best of us, so don’t take it personally.
Suits are full of joy. They’re the sartorial equivalent to a baby’s smile.
Suit Up! This is one of the most repeated phrases in How I Met Your Mother and is often modified to fit whatever clothing Barney is wearing. While I’m not suggestion that you need to suit up every time, you should always try to look your best as first impressions count and the way most people initially judge others is by their appearance. By dressing well, you’ll make a great first impression and convey a powerful message: you’ll show that you take care of yourself and your appearance and that your put-together which are extremely attractive qualities in a man.
Most of fashion is about good fit, matching colors, and tailoring to your personality. Check out Esquire’s tips on Men’s Fashion which discusses the latest fashion trends as well as this article which will give you 15 quick fashion tips.
Up your wardrobe and how you look… you’ll see how differently women respond.
If you want to have success with women then stop being ordinary and be legen—wait for it—–dary!
It’s well-known that the one thing that any guy can do to make themselves more attractive to women is to stand out from the crowd. You need to be exceptional! This has nothing to do with being super fit or having tons of money. Instead, it’s all about your character. Do you hold yourself to the highest standard (see rule above about suiting up)? Do you keep your word? Do you have class and respect? How often are you willing to step outside your comfort zone and try something new? Barney speaks Japanese, know various magic tricks and is the MVP in a laser tag championship.
This isn’t just for her, but for yourself too. You should expect nothing less than the best for yourself. Yes, she deserves that much but you deserve it too… This is the true meaning of a legendary man.
You can get some more tips from the man himself, Barney Stinson and his blog.
Check out this video of people some guys busting out lines from Barney’s Playbook