Sometimes we become so overloaded with information that we forget some of the most basic things we’ve learned. While a number of the points in the following list of do’s and don’ts may seem obvious, it doesn’t hurt to review them from time to time. For any points that may not be as familiar, perhaps they can offer a perspective that will help improve your dating experience.

Do:

1) Be a gentleman. Open doors. Ask her if she would like dessert. Call her in advance (not text the day of) to schedule a proper date.

2) Give compliments. She’s put work into being the best that she can be and wants to feel appreciated for her all her amazing qualities, mentally and physically.

3) Ask her what she’d like to do. She may want you to ultimately make the plans, but it’s courteous to show her you’re considering her desires and are open to suggestions.

4) Show your physical attraction. When done with consideration and moderation, flirting to show your attraction is a fun way to let her know you like what you see. It’s also a way to give her a confidence boost, which can benefit you in the long run.

5) Attempt to understand and appreciate her thoughts and experiences. Despite what certain media outlets might lead you to believe, females are human beings with valuable and interesting experiences. These experiences have contributed to the formation of their personal opinions. Sincere listening and empathizing with her may take you a long way.

6) Be prepared to pay. She may offer to split the bill or even take the whole thing later, but as a general rule, if you aren’t prepared to pick up the entire tab, you should ask her out. Women are typically not seduced by men who ask them for money.

7) Put her first. Women may not be as easy to please as most men, but if you keep the ladies happy, the ladies will keep you happy. You may find much reward is returned to you when you do your best to put her needs above yours.

8) Be kind to her friends. Her inner circle is a reflection of her. When you’re able to appreciate her friends, she feels accepted and more confident to involve you in different social aspects of her life.

Do Not:

1) Try so hard to be a gentleman that it makes things awkward. There’s no need to put your jacket over a puddle to keep her from getting her feet wet, or making her feel helpless by always offering to carry all of her things. Know the difference between genuine kindness and clumsy, attempted chivalry and try to practice organic courtesy.

2) Give compliments like, “Nice rack.” For the most part, women do not like being reduced to fleshy bits. If you must compliment her on her figure, a lady will better appreciate something like, “That jacket is tailored to you beautifully,” or “I love this feminine ensemble on you.”

3) Assume she likes what you do. She’s her own person, and she’ll quickly know if you’re worth staying with or not if you give her the sense you don’t expect her to have (or care if she has) her own preferences.

4) Show her your physical attraction by grabbing/smacking her body parts. We are not Neanderthals, but if you ever want her to behave like a cavewoman with you at some point in the future, you must first begin with civilized forms of communication and appreciation, like modern language and romance.

5) Criticize her and tell her she’s wrong. It’s unlikely that the two of you will agree on everything, but it’s common courtesy to respectfully take a different opinion. Try to appreciate the thought process she’s taken to forming her own opinions, and if her perspective becomes a fueled topic for you, try gently changing the direction of the conversation.

6) Ask her if she can financially contribute to the date. This should never feel obligatory to her. Unless you’re on a “friend date” or have agreed to “go Dutch” before, a quick way to lose the affections of a lady is to ask her out at her own expense.

7) Put her first so much that you become a pushover. Women like to know men are taking them into consideration and are looking out for their happiness, but if they feel like a man has entirely compromised his dignity to be a doormat at her feet, any hopes of respect and romance will surely be lost.

8) Like her friends so much that the two of you don’t maintain separate social circles. We all need things that are uniquely ours, including relationships, but trying to make all of her friends yours, too, will not only feel smothering and potentially controlling, but will create an unhealthy inability for the two of you to have necessary “away time” from each other.

 

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Sexy Ideas To Help You Get Back In Action

When you would rather put on some PJ’s and snuggle up to the bowl of Jelly Bellies than put on your lacey things and snuggle up to your tasty boy toy, you may suffer from dating dispassion. While an occasional night at home with Tivo is healthy, losing momentum in the romance department is not. So, to help launch lazy lovers back into action, here are five titillating ideas for dates, explanations of what you can expect during these dates and where to find them.

Sexy culinary adventures

So you want to spice up your love life? Have you tried cayenne pepper?  Lovers new or old can whip up some fun with cooking diva Shani Delamor of www.appetiteforseduction.com. Fortunately, this sensual chef’s passion for international cuisine and playful pleasure has made it possible for you to intensify your romance either in the privacy of your own home or in a secluded section of a restaurant near you. For the price of about $240 per couple (this varies depending on how many is in your group and where you chose to go) you can have your own sensual cooking experience and learn how legumes can lengthen your libido. If you don’t happen to be somewhere between NYC and Southern California (the two places these classes are offered) don’t be afraid to create some magic of your own without Shani. Dinner can still be a sexy experience if you just follow her advice.

Keeping an open mind and trying new things is a HUGE turn on. Have fun! ” – Shani Delamo

Swinging in the city

Wanna get high? You’re in luck! You may have seen Sarah Jessica Parker do it on Sex and the City. Now it’s time to indulge in it yourself. Bring your man and your socks and get ready to experience the exhilarating pastime whose popularity is growing faster than a cheerleader who forgot to put her bloomers on. From the price of about $60.00, you and your flame can take a swing at this strength building activity, no matter what part of the country you’re in. The instructors don’t push you to do anything you’re not ready for, but if you think you’ve got what it takes and you want to try your hand at advanced aerial arts, you can fly high right over the Hudson…or in the Valley…or over the desert… Swing on over to www.trapezehigh.com for a list of classes near you.

A date as indulgent as you are

If you’re the kind of girl who loves to be given TLC from a stranger who does nothing but focus on making you feel good for a solid hour, and getting tipsy is equally as divine, why not indulge in both? Go to a spa bar like Body By Brooklyn for a totally alternative spa experience. Some of these beauty bars offer massage and similar treatments, while some of them, like the world wide Dashing Diva’s chain, or America’s The Beauty Bar offers more simple and affordable pampering like manicures and pedicures. There are even traveling services that will throw a cocktail and massage party at the location of your choice. These gems are typically found in or around big cities and the prices vary, but a simple online search can lead you to the service nearest you. It’s health and hedonism in one, and what’s not sexy about that?

Hey baby, wanna lift?

Dudes dig big machines, and you will too when you let them take you miles above the city, allowing you to see things from the new and romantic perspective a helicopter can give you. Give him a rush with this rare opportunity to defy gravity in a most unforgettable escape. Not only will he think you’re the coolest chick ever, he might even give in to going shopping with you on the next date. West coast residents may look into services like Elite Helicopter Tours, while landlocked honeys may be find Fly Midwest more convenient, but these flights can be taken pretty much anywhere there’s a view. You may even be able to find a dinner and champagne service in some of the more luxurious packages offered. Rides can cost in the $100’s per person for 15 – 40 minutes, so unless your doormat is made of hundred dollar bills, make sure to check the rates of the ride you want first. Better rates are sometimes offered for a higher number of passengers, so this just might make an ideal double date, as well. Whether you decide more is merrier, or that you and your boy would be better off flying solo, there’s a heli nearby that is certain to elevate your dating experience to a whole new level.

Because he likes it in the morning

So, you hate mornings? A lot of us do, that is, until we gulp down our first mimosa. We’ve already established that you’re not getting out much anymore, so it shouldn’t be difficult for you to get to bed early one Saturday night. This will allow you to get up early on Sunday, just in time to meet him for brunch. The fun thing about a late morning or mid-day date is, not only does it give you an excuse to be drunk by noon, but it’s a fun alternative to the same old dinner and drinks routine. It also maximizes your time with your cutie. Most neighborhoods have venues that offer Sunday brunches in varying styles, like live music feasts to help get your blood flowing to better digest all that champagne and hollandaise. If you live near the water, you may even have the option of making a splash out of the most important meal of the day by hopping a brunch cruise like those offered by Waterway Cruises or Majestic Princess Cruises. These usually lasts around 2 hours (from about 11-1) and vary in price according to location and path. If this is the route for you, make sure you book your tickets in advance and that you’re unlikely to sleep in late. Most services have a 48-hour cancellation policy.

The good news is, these are just a few of many ideas to help spice up that dying dating activity of yours. There are an unlimited number of alternative and exciting things to do. So grab your man and put down the Jelly Bellies, already. There’s a whole lot of sexy fun out there waiting for you!

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Married But Looking

Are you married but looking at the possibility of having an affair?

First you should answer the following questions to see if you having an affair is right for you:

1) Are you currently catching yourself staring and admiring another woman or man even though you are married?

2) Do you wonder about the best places to go to to have an affair?

3) Ever have thoughts about managing an extra marital affair?

4) Are you worried that an affair will be hard or impossible?

I’m sure that if you’re reading this, that you’ve probably answered ‘yes’ to the questions above. You shouldn’t worry; there are many people like you who are unhappy in their current relationship and are looking at having an affair.

One of the best ways to ensure that you don’t get caught having an affair is to find like minded people. You can do this by joining a married dating site. One such website is Ashley Madison which is an online site that guarantees that you will be able to have a secret affair! They guarantee that you can have an affair without getting caught so you should take advantage of their features and services as it’s risk free. They offer you your money back fully if after 30 days you are unable to go about having an affair.

The great thing about Ashley Madison is that it connects you with like minded people. This is a great place to go if you always have wondered how to have an affair. You have the ability to connect with other people who are married or with single people who don’t care that you’re married. This is much easier than trying to pick up someone at a bar or club without getting caught.

Another reason why Ashley Madison is great for those who are married but looking is that it allows you to connect with a person on a physical, intellectual and sexual level. Ashley Madison offers several packages and depending on what type of affair you are looking to have, this may determine which package you want to select:

1) Intro Package

You get 100 credits allowing you to e-mail, chat with some women, etc. This is a great way to test the waters out and see if you’re really ready to go about having an affair.

2) Elite Package

This is a fantastic upgrade for those who know they want to have an affair and are ready to fully commit themselves. You’ll definitely be able to connect with multiple women with this package.

3) Ashley Madison Affair Guarantee

This package is the daddy of them all. With this package you are absolutely guaranteed to have an affair. This is the best package for those who want to know how to have an affair. With this, you’ll be meeting someone in no time!

The great thing about this married dating site is that you aren’t paying a monthly fee. Instead you are paying for credits to use additional features of the site to allow yourself a better chance at having an affair. The reason why it’s better with this set up is that you don’t have to worry about a yearly commitment (that is why you’re having an affair in the first place anyway, right?)… if you meet a woman who you make a connection with, that’s it. No need to keep paying the site!

While it may seem like a bummer to have to pay to fully use the site, just remember, it’s a small price to pay for a guarantee at discretion when having an affair.

Ashley Madison makes sure to help it’s members who are trying to understand how to have an affair secretly. You can turn off your profile at any time, or require a member request access to your photos. They also have a panic button just in case your spouse surprises you and you need to quickly escape the website without looking suspicious.

Still not sure whether joining Ashley Madison or even having an affair is right for you? Check out this review from a reader:

I started having an affair approximately five months ago. I met my married man from Ashley Madison. We started chatting online a few times a week and slowly progressed to texting/calling each other on the phone until we got to the point where we really wanted to meet.

I told my friend about my plans of having an affair with a married man. She’s someone who is very close to me and who I trust completely! She knows my own marriage history and trials and tribulations that I’ve been going through in my own marriage with my husband. She was extremely supportive, which was a weight off my shoulders. I think, had she disapproved of my actions, I would have called off meeting with my other man, and stopped right there and then with ever trying to have an affair again.

The reason I actually told her was for safety precautions more than anything else. In this day and age, you just never know who you really might meet, but again, it was nice to know that my friend supported me. It made going through with having an affair that much easier on me.

I have to say, having an affair has been one of the best things to happen to me. This man that I’m having an affair with is so intelligent, lively, fun… he just makes me so happy again and every time I see him, I feel like a school girl meeting up with her boy crush!

He takes me out to nice restaurants, makes fun date plans, and has already taken me away for a weekend. The more I see him, the more I realize how fantastic of a decision it was to have an affair. This guy really makes me feel alive! My affair with him has really re-energized my life.

I hings are still at a very early stage and so I don’t want to get ahead of myself. Perhaps our relationship will fizzle once the new becomes old, but at the same time, we both seem committed to keeping our relationship with each other fresh and not letting it get boring and stale. We just have such a connection. I just hope this affair can last forever!

So what are you waiting for? If you want to know how to have an affair, go to Ashley Madison today!

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Spicing Up Your Sex Life

From rather conservative to downright steamy… which video do you prefer? Did any offer useful tips? Leave a comment!

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Barney Stinson’s Playbook To Meeting and Picking Up Women

The Legend Himself – Barney Stinson

Have you ever watched the TV Show How I Met Your Mother? If so, then I’m sure you have undoubtedly laughed at the hilariously awesome antics of Barney Stinson, Casanova extraordinaire, whose bantam passion for seduction has left his peers on the show in awe.

Despite the fact that Barney Stinson is a fictional character, there is plenty that all us men can learn from him by analyzing his seduction style. Let’s break it down into an easy to learn format so that you too can possibly seduce women successfully like Barney Stinson.

A week? That’s like a year in hot girl time.

Don’t wait too long to take action with a girl you’re into. If you get her number, call her within within a day or two. As long as you don’t say anything cheesy and don’t come off as a stalker, then you’re not going to strike out by calling her so soon. Just keep it simple and short. If you want go out on a date with her, just ask her. If there’s a girl that you like, show her. If you want to kiss her, just do it.

Don’t play the waiting game and hope that you get lucky. Step up and take the action into your own hands. By waiting around, you may end up losing out on a perfect opportunity. As they say, strike while the iron is hot! Exceptional women don’t just wait around.

Laugh It Out

The second trait that is important to develop is humor. Why? Women have more than their share of problems that they are dealing with and don’t really need the company of another personal who is equally depressing. If you’ve ever watched Barney, then I’m sure some of his dialogues and quotes have gotten you laughing.

Remember, it’s all about believing in yourself!

You need to believe in yourself and how awesome you are! You need to be able to conquer your insecurities, get over your fears, and improve your confidence. Women love men who are highly confident. There’s no reason not to believe that you can’t conquer anything you put your mind to. You need to believe in your own abilities. And if it’s something you can’t do now, then remember that you can always practice and learn how.

Don’t be afraid to introduce yourself to the beautiful girl. Assume the best. Believe that when she does meet you, she won’t be able to wait to see you again. Go into every interaction expecting the best.

Sure, there are times that you are going to be rejected. But so what? It happens to the best of us, so don’t take it personally.

Suits are full of joy. They’re the sartorial equivalent to a baby’s smile.

Suit Up! This is one of the most repeated phrases in How I Met Your Mother and is often modified to fit whatever clothing Barney is wearing. While I’m not suggestion that you need to suit up every time, you should always try to look your best as first impressions count and the way most people initially judge others is by their appearance. By dressing well, you’ll make a great first impression and convey a powerful message: you’ll  show that you take care of yourself and your appearance and that your put-together which are extremely attractive qualities in a man.

Most of fashion is about good fit, matching colors, and tailoring to your personality. Check out Esquire’s tips on Men’s Fashion which discusses the latest fashion trends as well as this article which will give you 15 quick fashion tips.

Up your wardrobe and how you look… you’ll see how differently women respond.

If you want to have success with women then stop being ordinary and be legen—wait for it—–dary!

It’s well-known that the one thing that any guy can do to make themselves more attractive to women is to stand out from the crowd. You need to be exceptional! This has nothing to do with being super fit or having tons of money. Instead, it’s all about your character. Do you hold yourself to the highest standard (see rule above about suiting up)? Do you keep your word? Do you have class and respect? How often are you willing to step outside your comfort zone and try something new? Barney speaks Japanese, know various magic tricks and is the MVP in a laser tag championship.

This isn’t just for her, but for yourself too. You should expect nothing less than the best for yourself. Yes, she deserves that much but you deserve it too… This is the true meaning of a legendary man.

You can get some more tips from the man himself, Barney Stinson and his blog.

Check out this video of people some guys busting out lines from Barney’s Playbook

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Keeping Your Relationship Healthy

How are you feeling about your relationship as of late? Feeling like there’s nothing wrong, per se, however at the same time things don’t feel right?

Even healthy relationships go through ruts where there are feelings of boredom, negativity, and perhaps even apathy. Our lives are filled with daily routines that we adhere to – and while routines can be comforting, they can also begin to grow old and feel stale. Family mealtime conversation becomes dull; hanging out together feels like an obligation; sex is just going through the motions.

You may be tempted to ignore these feelings because you don’t feel like your relationship is actually bad and why stir things up in an otherwise seemingly good relationship, right? Wrong! Keeping silent and allowing yourself to silently suffer can start to build resentment which can lead to problems down the road. Furthermore, we all need stimulation and if we don’t find it within our current lifestyle, many times we’ll look to find that excitement somewhere else… aka extramarital affairs.

Healthy Relationship Tips

Here are 5 simple ways you can keep your love alive and fresh from a marriage counseling NYC therapist which will help you when you find that your relationship is starting to feel a bit stagnant.

  1. Identify New Activities To Do Together
    Sit down with your partner and brainstorm some new things that you two can do together… instead of ordering dinner in, why not try cooking together? Instead of going out for your morning jog alone, you two can go for a walk in the park or go to the gym together. Try taking up a new activity like dancing, painting or photography lessons. The point is to come up with an activity that you two will both enjoy doing in the company of each other.
  2. Get Away Together
    Plan a getaway, even if it’s just for a night or two,  just the two of you, where you can experience new surroundings together. You could each take part in planning a vacation or a hiking trip or a weekend visit to the museums downtown.
  3. Schedule Date Nights (or Days)
    Schedule a certain time each week to have coffee or breakfast together or meet for drinks after work to discuss what has been going on in your lives or to make the plans you need to make for the next week.
  4. Discuss Your Sex Life
    Is your sex life working ok for you? Too much…too little…too routine? What needs to change? Try to spice things up a bit… send a naughty text, make use of props, engage in roleplay… all is fair as long as you both enjoy it together.
  5. Tell Your Partner Why You Love Him or Her
    Remind your partner why you fell in love in the first place. Share the qualities you most appreciate in him or her. Mention specific details to keep it real and believable. Touch base mid-day sometimes, just to say “I love you,” “I’m thinking about you.”

You don’t have to take all five actions at one time, but keep these tips in mind to maintain the healthy, loving relationship you already have, or to work toward that as your goal. The care you show your partner and and the effort you put into maintaining your relationship make will come back to you in buckets.

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Keys To A Successful Intercultural Relationship

Creating and maintaining a successful intercultural relationship takes work. In my experience, people are more easily able to maintain close relationships with others in their own culture because it’s easier to do so; when you grow up in the same basic environment as another person, you have your own common-ground as a basis for any relationship. People from the same cultures can use what I like to call a “cultural shorthand”, in order to quickly establish rapport and to create friendships. With different cultural backgrounds in play, it’s a little harder but it still can be done.

The first thing you need to do when opening relationships with someone from a different culture is to learn what you can about them. What are their traditions? What can you learn about their mentality and their culture? Observing and understanding these things will help you to develop the capability of relating to their culture. I always say, “No matter how different we seem on the surface, underneath it all we’ve got a lot in common, and a lot to share”.

After taking the time to get to know something about the other culture, it’s time to test what you’ve learned. This stage takes patience and understanding, but it is well worth the effort. In my experience people don’t particularly like being challenged about their cultures, but they love teaching it to others.

Instead of criticizing something that seems odd to you, ask a good question about it. Chances are, you’ll come away with a better understanding of why something is done a certain way, and your friend will have the opportunity to introduce a part of their culture to you. For extra credit, you can explain how the same thing is done, or not done, in your own culture. Remember, the objective is not to criticize, but to exchange information.

At some point in your cross-cultural relationship building adventure, you’re going to have to deal with the three hundred pound gorilla in the room; the language barrier. Language problems can be a source of frustration, but they can also be a great opportunity to learn. When you don’t understand something don’t get frustrated, just ask for an explanation. At this point, the most valuable ten words to say are “can you explain this to me in a different way”? For extra credit, learn how to say this sentence in your new friend’s own language. This might just be the best sentence in another language that you’ll ever learn.

Respect is crucial at all times. There might be some things about another culture that you don’t particularly care for. Their might even be some things that you find crazy, or even offensive. Remember to approach these issues respectfully. You don’t have to eat a strange dish if you don’t want to, but you don’t have to wrinkle your nose up and scowl either.

Finally, you’ll want to avoid cultural conflicts. There may be some things about another culture that you’ll never learn to appreciate. You may even come to hate these things. Building relationships is about building bridges based on mutual agreement.

Imagine that you had a friend who you argued with non-stop every single time you met them. That’s not a friendship that’s going to last for too long, is it? Talk about the things that come easy, and save the arguments for another time.
Guest post by Krystyna Trushyna

About the author: Krystyna is a Ukrainian intellectual with a deep interest in matters of the heart. In her regularly updated blog posts on ukrainiandatingblog.com, Krystyna has shown a keen eye for intercultural relationships. Having a wide range of interests including Sociolinguistics, Gender Studies, intercultural relationships and online dating makes Krystyna the very best personal Ukrainian dating coach on the Internet.

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Get 1 Million Dollars From Ashley Madison

Ashley Madison is offering 1 million dollars to anyone who can poke a hole in Tim Tebow’s virginity and prove that they’ve had sexual relations with him. “Sports and sex (including infidelity) go hand in hand,” Ashley Madison founder Noel Biderman said in a recent statement. I truly doubt that Biderman believes that there’s any salacious tapes out there or that anyone can provide sordid details of having an adult relationship with Tebow; this is yet another way for Ashley Madison to generate free PR for themselves.

Update: I just read on the Gothamist that according to an Ashley Madison representative that they are accepting reports from any man who claims to have slept with Tebow. Not only that, but apparently they are already receiving reports of men claiming to have bed Tebow…. though who knows if this is just another way to keep the buzz going.

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Having an affair with a married man

Having an affair with a married manAn affair with a married man can be feel exciting due to it’s newness as well as passionate and fun, however you should also think about the negative consequences that come with having an affair with a married man such as the fact that it can be a huge time waste, you can end up with a broken heart, your reputation can be ruined, etc.

An affair with a married man will leave someone hurt; either yourself, the man you are having an affair with, or both of you. It can also hurt his family, both his wife and kids, and can put a strain on any friendships you have with other people.

That isn’t to say that there aren’t any affairs that end happily – some second marriages have come about from an illicit romance, however it should be noted that the majority of the time, outside relationships do not end well as most married men will not leave their wives. Sure he may be telling you that he’s waiting for the right time to tell his wife about the affair and getting a divorce, but this is typically just a stall tactic to keep the relationship going with you, his mistress. If kids are involved (assuming they are of young age), then that makes it almost certain that he won’t be leaving his wife, even if the marriage is loveless as the children are the silver lining to the unhappiness of his marriage. The fear of what other people may think will prevent him from leaving as he won’t want to be the ‘bad guy’ in their eyes.

So, knowing that an affair is not a great idea, the question is, should you still have an affair with a married man?

That really depends on you, but you should evaluate why you are seeking to be with a married person in the first place as opposed to someone who is single and available. You need to realize that the relationship with the married guy will have a glass ceiling if he doesn’t leave his wife which means that your relationship with a married man will start to get stagnant. For a healthy relationship, it’s important to be with someone where there’s constant progression and growth.

Some other long term factors that you should consider is if this married man is someone that you really want to be with or are you only with them now due to the mystery, passion, and secretiveness that the affair brings? Also, even if he does leave his wife, will you be able to trust him and know that he isn’t cheating on you? Remember, the relationship that you are building with him started with sneaking around and lies.

These are all important things to consider before going off to have an affair with a married man. While many people may look down on you, in the end you must do what you think will be best for you, even if it does mean pursuing such a relationship. Just realize that there are potentially a lot of negative repercussions to your actions if you do decide to enter into a relationship with a married man.

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Getting A Guy To Ask You Out

There are so many independent, single females who want to learn the secrets to how to get a guy you like to ask you out. This article will try and assist you in finding that special guy with whom you can exchange thoughtful conversation, share your most intimate feelings and thoughts, and ultimately in finding a guy who will love you.

It can become extremely upsetting and can cause feelings of jealousy when your female friends go out with their boyfriends and have fantastic nights, showing off gorgeous photos of the places they’ve visited, and/or talking about all the new things they’ve done together. The worst part is, they share all the most intimate details making you wonder what’s wrong with you. Don’t worry! With a few simple changes, you will learn how to get a guy to ask you out.

Finding a boyfriend is not very hard if you go into the situation with the proper mental attitude and learn how a guys mind works. To achieve success in finding an answer to how to get a guy to ask you out, you need to be willing to take action and initiate in making the first move.

Remember to just be yourself as he will be more likely to be interested in you and comfortable in being in your company. If you pretend to be someone else, you’ll most likely be awkward making him feel uncomfortable around you. Don’t be afraid to talk to him and be flirtatious; by doing so, he should start to get the drift to ask you out on a date.

Something else to try to help with getting the guy you like to ask you out is to mention that new movie you’d like to see or bring up the restaurant that you are dying to try. By bringing up events that you’d like to do or things you would like to see, you are giving him the perfect opening to ask you out on a date. This method for how to get a guy to ask you makes it less formal for him as he is asking to join as opposed to officially asking you to go out on a date.

While there may not be any guarantee to get a guy to ask you out, the one thing you can do, is take matters into your own hand and ask the guy out. Ask him out to grab a cup of coffee or to go to the movies. Men like a woman who is confident, it’s a trait that they find to be attractive and can give you the edge in getting a date with the guy you like.

These tips and hints should help in your quest for how to get a guy to ask you out, however don’t worry if it doesn’t work out. It’s not the end of the world. There are plenty of men out there that you can use this process for in how to get a guy to ask you out. You will definitely find the right guy who is worth the effort!

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